Written by Randi Shannon, Iowa Senate Candidate District 34
Recently a survey of several Gazette questions came out to all the candidates running for Iowa House and Senate seats. As you may know I’m running for State Senate in District 34. I spent a lot of time answering them for the Gazette and even more so for the voters. I noticed that my opponent, democrat Liz Mathis, did not answer the survey, even though the Gazette endorsed her last fall for having excellent communication skills. The Gazette has said nothing about Liz Mathis’ failure to communicate, which must sting the Gazette considerably.
One of the 3 part questions was "Should voters be allowed to decide whether to amend the State Constitution to define marriage as only between one man and one woman? Do you support the April 2009 Iowa Supreme Court decision legalizing same-sex marriage or do you oppose such unions? Should the Legislature impeach the four remaining justices who supported that unanimous decision? In response to the questions, I decided to help educate the voters on just how marriage licenses came to be. I think it's rather fascinating and it's a part of history that no one talks about.
After the civil war, the white southerners wanted to prevent mixed-race marriages, so they passed local laws requiring a license for all black people to get married, but of course licenses for mixed-raced marriages were never granted. Within a short time, it became illegal for the clergy to marry blacks without a license.
The license required a fee of course, and this worked so well that it wasn’t long before the licensing requirement was extended to everyone. The politicians realized that it was a wonderful source of revenue.
Within a few decades, corrupt governments all over the world were requiring people to get marriage licenses. Now, more than a century after marriage licenses were conceived, the clergy, who fear the government more than they fear God, refuses to marry anyone without a license. I personally believe that marriage should not be a source of revenue for government.
Please note, that God gave us the right to be married and it is an unalienable right of the likes of which is mentioned by Thomas Jefferson in the Declaration of Independence. (Unalienable rights endowed by our Creator.)
Iowans should be granted the opportunity to vote on this issue! They should be given the facts and then the opportunity to have their say. As I’ve clearly shown here, marriage licenses are a government overreach born out of the love of money, which is the root of all kinds of evil.
What say you?
Joe Bouchard
1:17 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
you rock. If I lived in Iowa I would volunteer to campaign for you!
Randi Shannon
1:30 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
I do live in Iowa :0)) Visit www.Facebook.com/IowaSenator See you on the campaign trail!!!
Daniel Rudolph
1:44 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
Marriage licenses aren't required in Iowa. Common law marriage is still legal here. Varnum v. Brien was about the right for same-sex couples to have any kind of marriage, not just a licensed one. This would make sense if you wanted to get rid of the $35 fee for marriage licenses, but same-sex marriage doesn't affect this issue either way and vice-versa.
Joe Kennedy
4:42 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
How many years of co-habitation are required before a common law marriage is recognized? If a common law partner dies 6 weeks into the relationship are there any rights for the survivor? A legally married partner has rights immediately.
Joe Stutler
2:15 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
What about those marriages not performed by clergy? As the state (government) provides a plethora of legal and financial benefits to married couples, shouldn't these costs be paid for, in part, by those who choose marriage? What about the costs associated with maintaining the vital statistics and records marriages create? Are you advocating eliminating marriage license requirements as well as all tax and legal benefits to marriages?
Randi Shannon
2:52 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
If someone is paying lower tax than others then the tax needs lowered across the board-that would be a fair system. The government was never meant to be in the marrying business.
Daniel Rudolph
3:07 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
So are you proposing eliminating all official recognition of marriage or just the associated fees and tax benefits? What does this have to do with a same-sex marriage amendment? That wouldn't change marriage except to take it away from a minority of people. Married couples would still get tax breaks and other favorable treatment and have to pay $35 if they wanted to avoid the potential hassles of common-law marriage.
Todd Andrews
3:11 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
Can you cite any of the above facts or are we supposed to take your word for it because you're a politician?
B.A. Morelli
3:13 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
Randi, Is your view that marriage, whether it is same sex or opposite sex, should be left to the church or whatever organization that performs the ceremony?
Randi Shannon
3:59 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_license scroll down to the United States. You must do your research-do not take my word for it or anyone's for that matter. "By allowing the state to exercise control over marriage, it is implied that we merely have privilege, not the right, to marry. As an example, those born in the US receive a birth certificate, not a birth license. Marriage is a contract between two people and God, so no authorization from the state is required. For most of Western history, marriage was a private contract between two families.
Daniel Rudolph
5:04 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
That same article does not back your account of how marriage licenses started. It gives a rather different story. If your position is that the state should not recognize marriage at all, what does a referendum which only bars recognition of a small minority of marriages have to do with anything?
mike westman
8:43 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012
marriage is a contract between two people. God ...or whoever...is a bystander
Randi Shannon
4:09 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
Todd-I am not a politician. I'm running for a job to serve the people because others that have been in the public eye or in the political arena for quite some time have brought our state and our nation to it's knees. Being a senator is not something to be idolized or turned into celebrity status. I've been in the private sector doing my own thing for nearly 20 years. But since the government won't stay out of my business i'm going to get in theirs and put a stop to their overreach, well at least make a big dent. I'm going to point out every single unConstitutional thing they are doing. We do have laws and we have a small group of people that could care less about them. It's more about the revenue-as i've pointed out here.
Todd Andrews
4:38 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
Thanks, and I like your point about certificates vs. license.
Randi Shannon
4:50 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
You are welcome and B.A. Morelli, I hope that answered for you as well.
Randi Shannon
5:48 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
Daniel it very CLEARLY states and I quote "But marriage licenses were not required until after the American Civil War.[1]" Marriage licenses from their inception have sought to establish certain prohibitions on the institution of marriage. These prohibitions have changed throughout history. In the 1920s, they were used by 38 states to prohibit whites from marrying blacks, mulattos, Japanese, Chinese, Indians, Mongolians, Malays or Filipinos without a state approved license.[1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miscegenation and http://www.lawfulpath.com/ref/secularmarriage.shtml Great information here. Now if anyone would like to bring up other points i'm happy to answer. But this one is now put to rest. It can be beat to death the facts are the facts.
Daniel Rudolph
6:15 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
I don't dispute any of that, but I am having trouble following what exactly you are claiming here. That section is only about marriage licenses being required. They existed in optional form for hundreds of years before that. Licenses still are optional in Iowa. Common-law marriage hasn't changed here.
Marriage licensing existed before Varnum v. Brien and didn't change one bit after except for reducing the power of the state to veto marriage it didn't like.
If you were advocating making marriage licenses free or ending tax benefits of marriage or abolishing civil marriage altogether or something, I could see your point and maybe support you. I don't see how re-banning gay marriage would do anything about marriage license fees or how the issues are even vaguely connected. Let's say everything you say about marriage licenses is correct: What does banning same-sex marriage have to do with any of the problems you talked about?
Randi Shannon
6:22 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
Daniel-you are funny. My points are simple and well made-have a good night.
Joe Stutler
7:04 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Saying that your points are "simple and well made" does not make it so. Daniel asked some very specific questions regarding your positions on issues important to Iowans and Americans. Instead of answering the questions, you call the person "funny" then dismiss them. You also failed to respond to my questions above. That is certainly not the response I would require of someone seeking to represent me in the statehouse. Indeed, I require well-reasoned and cogent responses from my representatives, even if I may not agree with their position.
Please do try again to answer Daniel's questions, and mine as well. I'm sure someone seeking to represent me can do better than what you've displayed thus far in this forum.
Benjamin B.
7:40 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
As you had mentioned above:
One of the 3 part questions was "Should voters be allowed to decide whether to amend the State Constitution to define marriage as only between one man and one woman? Do you support the April 2009 Iowa Supreme Court decision legalizing same-sex marriage or do you oppose such unions? Should the Legislature impeach the four remaining justices who supported that unanimous decision? In response to the questions, I decided to help educate the voters on just how marriage licenses came to be. I think it's rather fascinating and it's a part of history that no one talks about.
Is there a link you can offer to show the questions and the answers that where given? I understand the history you are sharing with us, however, the topic of the questions are still something that is very debatable. With many individuals it's a very touchy subject. That aside, given the history you have shared, wouldn't it seem that if the purpose of a marriage license is to bring in revenu, then it shouldnt be that difficult to pass a same sex marriage law. Wouldnt allowing same sex couples to marry just help bring in that much more money for the state?
Randi Shannon
7:54 pm on Monday, June 4, 2012
Benjamin. This is the link you requested http://c3.thevoterguide.org/v/cedarrapids12/index.do
If you read my answers you will find the answers to your questions. Interesting side note, NOT 1 democrat answered the survey.
Chris Liebig
12:11 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
I clicked on the link and can't help but notice that, for all your railing about Liz Mathis's lack of response, you did not answer the question at all. And your answers to Daniel, above, are not "simple and well made," but evasive and incoherent. Do you or do you not support the Varnum decision? Do you or do you not think the remaining four justices should be impeached? If you are saying that the state should get out of the marriage business entirely, will you explain how you would change the tax laws? The custody laws? The inheritance laws?
If anyone can find the answers to those questions in Ms. Shannon's response to the survey, or anywhere in this thread, please help me out.
Chris Liebig
8:23 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
I don't see the answers to those questions anywhere on your website. If I'm wrong, can you link to the specific page? Is there some reason voters should not be allowed to know your views on those subjects?
But anyway, my question was directed to how the state laws would have to change if the state stopped issuing marriage licenses. Example: Suppose I die without a will. Under what circumstances will my significant other inherit my property? Only if we were married in a church? Only if we are straight and were married in a church? Something else? What's the answer?
Randi Shannon
8:44 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Marriage is an unalienable right (endowed by our Creator).
I personally believe in traditional marriage.
I think that marriages should be between a single man and a single woman.
I oppose federal efforts to redefine marriage as something other than a union between one man and one woman quite frankly because this is not a federal issue.
My personal hope is that the states will stop sanctioning marriages altogether.
I think the government should just be out of it. I think marriages should be done by the church or private contract, and we shouldn’t even be having this argument of who’s married and who isn’t married. I have my standards but I shouldn’t have to impose my standards on others. Other people have their standards and they have no right to impose their marriage standards on me.
If we absolutely must have the government say something about marriage it should be at the state level, and not at the federal. The reason I say this is it’s the people who have the say so, not the government. It’s We The People, not we the government. They were never supposed to be more powerful than the people.
Iowans should be granted the opportunity to vote on this issue; they should be given the facts and then the opportunity to have their say.
I have appreciated all of your friendly input. If you'd like to know more about my stand on issues being debated and or affecting our state/nation, please go to my website www.ShannonForSenate.com
Chris Liebig
8:49 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Thank you, that finally clarifies some things. But it still seems to be avoiding the central question: Do you think state law should ever treat same-sex couples differently than opposite-sex couples?
Joe Stutler
9:05 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Please define "traditional marriage", because there are many different traditions of marriage. Some of these different marriages, as described in the Judeo-Christian Bible, include Polygamy and forcing rape victims to marry the perpetrator.
The issue is indeed relevant at the federal level as there are numerous benefits conferred upon married couples that non-married families and single people do not enjoy. These benefits include financial advantages, legal considerations, tax reductions and so on. State recognition of marriages also confer benefits upon others.
If you truly believe there should be no state-sanctioned marriage, then how would there even be an issue of same-gender marriage? How do you propose to eliminate the inequities of legal and financial benefits state-sanctioned marriage confers?
Should marriage be sanctioned a the state, and not federal, level, how then do you reconcile the US Constitution's Comity Clause (Article IV, Section 2, Clause 1) and the Equal Protection Clause (Fourteenth Amendment) with your position?
Do you believe that Iowans should be able to vote to abridge or remove the Rights of other Iowans?
As a prospective constituent who has taken and oath to support and defend the Constitution, and who has served during both peace and war putting my life on the line to fulfill that oath, our Constitutional Rights are important to me. I look forward to your answers.
Jeff Klinzman
2:57 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Randi, this post is a perfect example of doublethink from Orwell's "Nineteen Eighty-Four." While you tell us your "personal" opinions on marriage and "freedom," you then sanction the idea that we do NOT have federal citizenship rights which are superior to the rights we enjoy as citizens of a state. I infer that you will work to put an amendment on the general electiobn ballot to strip gays and lesbians of marriage rights: that's just plain wrong, and you should know it. You tell us you'd rather not have "government" involved, but that is a copout, since therre are some 1600+ federal benefits which accrue to married couples. You tell us you're for "freedom" but then imply that gays and lesbians are second-class citizens who do not enjoy the same protected rights that heterosexuals do.
The states got it wrong on interracial marriage, which the US Supreme Court corrected in Loving v. Virginia. Like it or not, it was congressional Republicans, abetted by a collaborating Bill Clinton, who DID pass a federal law defining marriage when they pushed through the federal Defense of Marriage Act, which the Second US Circuit Court of Appeals recently argued is unconstitutional. I want to hear you explain why gays and lesbians are exempted from the equal protection clause of the Fourteenth Amendment to the US constitution.
I'll put it in electrons: American citizens do NOT have a "right" to put the fundamental freedoms of other Americans up for a vote.
Randi Shannon
9:02 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
I guess it boils down to this....it's going to come down to whatever group is more powerful at the voting booth. I have written my personal views but at the end of the day, the law and treatment will be what the people vote for. Whether the people vote for same sex marriage or 1 man 1 woman, then all rights the government grants will apply.
Chris Liebig
9:06 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
I find that last comment incomprehensible. People can exercise their rights intelligently at the voting booth only if the candidates make their positions clear. Do you think state law should ever treat same-sex couples differently than opposite-sex couples?
Joe Stutler
9:16 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
To piggy-back on Chris's question, should married people (hetero, same-sex, whatever) have more benefits than single people?
Randi Shannon
9:23 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Chris -I don't get your comment. Once the people make a choice a law goes into effect. Whatever 1 man 1 woman is getting then it would all be the same. You have taken the blog subject and turned this into whether you are voting for me or not. If i win it's because you see my issues and you make a choice. IF the people vote for same sex marriage then why wouldn't they be treated the same-isn't this common sense? IF the people see it as 1 man 1 woman then a same sex couple will not be recognized with rights. I have made my position very clear. For me personally...I don't look to the government to give me anything and I certainly don't go to them for my unalienable rights that are endowed by my creator. I have in the past and I only received a headache :0) I'm headed out for the day. Chris I hope this answers your question. You have a super day!
Jeff Klinzman
11:55 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
"I don't look to the government to give me anything." May I assume you will NOT be paid for your legislative work, should you be elected!?
Chris Liebig
9:31 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
I understand that people get to vote. Since you're running for a public office, we'd like to know what people will get if they vote for you. That seems like a pretty basic concept.
You have not made your position clear. Do you think that state law should ever treat same-sex couples differently than opposite-sex couples? Yes or no?
Scott Raynor
11:12 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Hey Randi. As a Republican political candidate, what do you think of the Iowa Republicans for Freedom — the group of Iowa Republicans that are for same-sex marriage?
Jeff Klinzman
11:53 am on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Ms. Shannon, if being able to marry is an "inalienable" right, isn't it inconsistent to then put that right up for a popular vote? Or, are you afraid to deviate from the party line laid out by the GOP's evangelical activists? And, if it's fair for voters to decide by ballot who gets rights, does that mean you're okay with us putting up for a vote which churches and denominations receive the government benefit of a tax exemption?
Aaron Garrett
12:52 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
I'm not clear why people are having such a hard time understanding her standpoint. She made it resoundingly clear that the federal government should not be in the marriage business and made the entire blog entry about getting the state out of it. I was married by my father in law who is a pastor, to his daughter. That the state of Iowa had ANY business in telling me that was ok or not was a joke. Legal quandaries caused by the practice are a huge waste of resources and don't warrant the time and division they cause. Is that clear enough?
Chris Liebig
12:56 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
No, it's not. How about my question, above? If I die without a will, under what circumstances should my significant other inherit my property? Only if we were married in a church? Only if we're an opposite-sex couple married in a church?
Being able to control your inheritance rights by formalizing your union (call it whatever you want) in a state procedure makes a question like that one much easier to decide, and prevents a lot of unnecessary litigation over whether or not you are a common-law spouse.
So how do you answer that question?
Joe Stutler
1:34 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Actually, Aaron, more than half of the word count related to political posturing. Her assertions were poorly sourced, if at all. She has thus far evaded answering the questions posited by the Fourth Estate and potential constituents, conflated the issue of same-sex marriage and marriage licenses, asserted marriage is only legitimate if endorsed by some deity (of her choice), etc. While I agree that the state has no legitimate interest in telling me who I may marry (license), I have far less of an issue with recording this legal and binding contract with the state for legal reasons.
As for your marriage, did you obtain a marriage license/record the marriage with the state?
As for the federal government's involvement, that is an issue brought on by the Comity and Equal Protection Clauses of the US Constitution. So, are you saying that you and she do not support our Constitution?
Daniel Rudolph
3:55 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
She made it clear enough that she thinks that marriage should be disestablished as a legal institution. What's confusing me is how a referendum to keep marriage, but bar certain people from it, does anything to further this goal. She keeps saying, "the people should be allowed to vote on this issue" but the issue on the proposed amendment is not the same one that she's talkign about. I'm trying to understand how you get from A to B.
Aaron Garrett
1:53 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Chris, if you are so concerned about where your property goes when you die maybe you should take the responsibility to make a will. If you so desire, persons should be able to enter into civil contracts with one another and call it whatever they want... but they shouldn't expect preferential treatment or some grand acceptance and parade by the state over the issue. I am totally against preferential tax treatment for married individuals regardless of sex. What you all ought to be worried about is the innocents our Presidents kill in undeclared wars not authorized by the Constitution or the fact that your country is flat broke and looking for the next country to invade. Maybe even consider the helicopter drones they are building in and to be used by local police in cedar rapids.
Chris Liebig
2:40 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Aaron -- People are going to die without wills sometimes. What should the law be in that circumstance? There has to be an answer, but neither you nor Randi Shannon has given one. The issue comes up in other circumstances, too. If I am suddenly incapacitated, who gets to make health care decisions on my behalf? My significant other? Or not?
Saying that you want to "get the state out of the marriage business" does nothing to answer those questions. There are different possible answers, but what we want to know is: under your answer, would the law ever treat same-sex couples differently than opposite-sex couples?
I'm actually getting these sense from you that your answer might be "no." But I'm not getting that sense at all from Randi Shannon, who is entirely avoiding the question. It's a simple yes-or-no question; either there would be different treatment, or not. It would be very easy to put the issue to rest just by answering it yes or no.
Aaron Garrett
4:22 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Remind me again why it is my problem if you dont write your own will? Chris, I would advise you speak with your doctor about issues related to medical decision making. Their are not very complicated ways to handle that.
Would the law ever treat same sex couples differently than opposite sex couples? Of course it would, why should we expect any differently from the government? Government in general has a pretty solid habit of using any power that the populace has been careless enough to hand over to them, against them and often in a discriminatory manner. We are looking at a pretty good example right here. The difference between our opinions is that you expect them to act differently than what they show us at every turn, and I see them for what they are and I dont expect them to use the power to regulate marriage any better than they have used it to regulate commerce or "peace keeping efforts".
Chris Liebig
4:53 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
I'm not asking for your prediction about whether the law would treat same-sex couples differently. I'm asking for your opinion about whether it should, and whether you would support that. And really I'm asking for Randi Shannon's, and she's refusing to answer yes or no.
And so are you, about my will question. I understand that you're saying that people who don't make wills have to bear the consequences. Now tell us what the consequences are.
Let me put it differently: Suppose I get married in a church and live with my spouse for forty years. Say we have no children. When I die, it turns out I haven't made a will. Suppose my closest blood relative is a second cousin in Toledo whom I've never met. Under your proposal, who gets my estate, my spouse or my second cousin in Toledo? And does the outcome differ if my spouse is of the same sex as I am?
Jeff Klinzman
2:43 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Aaron, there are over 1600 federal benefits accorded to married couples, e.g. Social Security survivor benefits. It is Utopian and impractical to assert, as you do, that the government "get out" of the "marriage business." To be blunt, I never heard a libertarian make that argument before same-sex marriage became an issue: is that because you cannot state explicitly your own opposition to it, but have to hide behind libertarian platitudes?
Aaron Garrett
4:27 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Jeff, I honestly couldnt care less who people want to have sex with or marry. Ive got enough of my own problems to worry about what you or anyone else is out their doing with their life. I relate with homosexual people on a nearly daily basis, and have had longstanding friendships with homosexual persons. I am a heterosexual. I dont expect you to care, and it wont hurt my feelings if you dont. All I ask is that people, especially government, stay out of my personal life, private conversations, bedroom, and home. I dont have to hide anything behind libertarian rhetoric. Im proud to be a part of the wide scale conspiracy to take over the government and leave everyone alone. Sinister ;~)
Jeff Klinzman
6:31 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
All you need do to satisfy me, Aaron, is state clearly that same-sex marraige is a basic civil right guaranteed to us by the Fourteenth Amendment. Anything less is unacceptable.
Proud UNI Grad
3:10 pm on Tuesday, June 5, 2012
I can sum up in two words the over-emotional, over-simplistic and under-thought out sentiment of many in our country today: "Government Bad". The issues may rotate on a daily or weekly basis, but the "solution" always remains the same...eliminate this nebulous "government" monster by all means necessary.
ezra van auken
11:51 am on Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Why do I need to sign a paper contract confirming my feelings toward somebody else? Lol! Randi/Rand 2016?!
KeoniKoch
12:20 pm on Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Beyond all the diversions and side tracking their is a truth, the government should not be in the business of charging people who decide to commit to each other for life, not should they be in the business of charging people who decide to nullify that commitment. The government and law should only seek to protect written contracts.
If people choose to be legally connected to someone else
in terms of finances or property, that should be outlined in an individual contract between the two parties, not a third party who's involvement is based soley in its
Insistence to be there. There is a lot of riff raff about "what happens if someone dies" well that's what wills are for. And if the government did not tamper in marriage people would likely take wills more seriously as they should. If they don't property goes to next of kin, and ultimately and quickly people learn their lesson and take more accountability for themselves.
The end result is marriage is not a government but a religious institution. The government has no say, no place and no opinion about what happens in anyone's bedroom, or their church. It's involvement in marriage is merely an industry for them, a huge industry for marriage and a huge industry for the legal field when they go south. The government should not be involved in marriage to any degree, and furthermore marriages "definition" should be and is a religious matter not a legal one.
Chris Liebig
4:51 pm on Wednesday, June 6, 2012
But getting a marriage license is in many ways easier than getting a legally enforceable will or drawing up detailed contracts about your legal relationship with your significant other. It's a relatively simple way for people to opt into a system of longstanding default rules about inheritance and other issues.
So requiring people to get a marriage license to control their inheritance rights is somehow nanny-state tyranny, but requiring them to execute a legally enforceable will to do so is the essence of liberty? What's the difference, in substance, other than that the marriage license process makes it, on the whole, easier?
In any event, if someone wants to say that the property in my hypothetical (above) should go to the second cousin in Toledo, I can at least respect that as an answer (as opposed to a non-answer), though it makes no sense to me as a policy choice. But can we agree that the law should not treat same-sex couples differently than it treats opposite-sex couples? Though I disagree with hard-core libertarians on a lot of things, I would think we could agree on that. I would be very, very surprised, though, if Randi Shannon would agree to that principle. It's practically the kiss of death in today's Republican Party.
Aaron Garrett
1:40 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
EXACTLY.
Sean
1:23 pm on Wednesday, June 6, 2012
I'm a mind your own business Republican.
I cherish the autonomy of the individual. I prefer Liberty to central control. Liberty is diversity and the cornerstone of our country and If the people have there liberty, our society has strength through the diversity it brings
The government should not prop up one type of marriage, and they shouldn't try to prevent another.
Randi makes a interesting observation about the origin of marriage licenses and I think that speaks to and underlying theme:
We maintain an empire on other peoples holylands while carrying out an indiscriminate bombing campaigns while influencing oversees governments (friendly and unfriendly) with our foreign aid yet we wonder why we have a problem with anti- American extremism
In the past we have allowed special interests to turn a government approved food pyramid upside down all while subsidizing H.F. corn syrup making unhealthy food prevalent and cheap yet we wonder why we have an obesity epidemic.
And lests not forget our country's past regarding racial injustices, up to a certain point, it was government that promoted, incentives, protected and codified racialist slavery.
It was a peoples movement that helped to put a damper on racial injustices - yet for political purposes the government finally agreed on the civil rights act.
Chris Liebig
4:55 pm on Wednesday, June 6, 2012
I'm sympathetic to a lot of what you're saying here, but I don't see how someone holding those views can feel very comfortable in the Republican Party. The Democratic Party certainly has its problems, but at least they are far less likely to police what you do in your bedroom.
Sean
1:24 pm on Wednesday, June 6, 2012
HE GOVERNMENT IS VERY GOOD AT GETTING OUT IN FRONT OF THE PARADE. THE POWERS THAT'S BE ARE SECURER IN THERE STATION IN LIFE BECAUSE THEY CREATE PROBLEMS AND THEN AT A LATTER POINT MASQUERADE THERE SELF'S AS THE SOLUTION TO THOSE PROBLEMS
The tradition in our country is to expand the rights of the people. For that reason I stand with Randi on the premises that the government has no role in marriage. If there are issues with inequitable tax rates, LOOK AT THE TAX CODE. AND IF THERE ARE ISSUES WITH HOSPITAL VISITATION, LOOK AT THE LEGALIST AND PEDANTIC ASPECTS OF OUR INTERACTION WITH GOVERNMENT AND GOVERNMENTAL INSTITUTIONS.
Randi is not the Republican establishment and she has all ready shown courage in standing up for the best in our country even if that puts her at odd with the big-wigs in our party.
Chris Liebig
4:57 pm on Wednesday, June 6, 2012
I think you projecting attitudes onto Randi Shannon that she does not actually hold. If that's her philosophy, why won't she say that the law should not treat same-sex couples differently from opposite-sex couples?
Sean
6:26 pm on Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Chris, I want you to consider that if there are certain things that prevent you from usually supporting a person with (R) in front of there name, you may find upon reflection that those concerns may not be warranted with Randi. I find open mindedness to be one of the best traits of Independents or democrats..
Chris Liebig
8:02 pm on Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Then why won't she say that the law should not treat same-sex couples any differently from opposite-sex couples? I don't think I can find her answer to that question just through "reflecting."
Jeff Klinzman
7:48 am on Thursday, June 7, 2012
Shannon uses a typical neoconservative tactic here. Knowing that American conservatism historically has been soft on racism, she has to invent a narrative which shows conservative sympathy for civil rights, hence her story that state-issued marriage licenses began as a way for the postbellum South to regulate marriage. I've seen similar arguments about gun control: that such laws originated in order to control southern blacks.
Such narratives are half true, but still fanciful. Shannon says nothing about how tax policy, to name one, has been used to encourage behavior the society finds beneficial: hence tax policies which favor married couples over singles, or which allow deductions for children. And look at how strange the discussion has become: so many users here project their abstract ideal, always libertarian, of how society should work, because they cannot engage in the debate about the policies now in place. And, it is completely impractical and Utopian to insist that tax policy must be overhauled from top to bottom in order to conform to what Ayn Rand told them is politically correct.
Shannon and many commenters here are proposing scorched-earth social policy. They cannot state their opposition to same-sex marriage in arguments based on secular law, so their only recourse is to scrap the institution as currently configured so they can deny its benefits to same-sex couples.
Aaron Garrett
12:38 pm on Friday, June 8, 2012
Jeff, you might have a point on conservatives being "soft on racism", except that "historically" the facts dont support that assertion. I suppose one could say that both democrats and republicans are racist and that the republicans are even more racist than most... but, you would have to maintain that on the most remarkable piece of legislation this century on minority rights, the *Democrats* were the racists who voted overwhelmingly against the Civil Rights Act of 1964.
If not for the Republican support it wouldnt have had a chance.
Randi Shannon
1:01 pm on Thursday, June 7, 2012
Jeff-you give me too much credit . My story is simply about licenses being revenue for the government. This is a blog folks, a place to share information. From what I can tell no one is disagreeing with the main point of the story. I appreciate it when everyone can share their viewpoint civilly. Otherwise this isn't too much fun. I would hope that some are happy to have learned something and others are happy to share their information so that we may learn more or look at a different viewpoint. It's most definitely not for interjecting venom. Maybe a future blog will be on same sex vs man/woman but that is not where i'm going today. My thoughts are government is way way too big and if I can point out ways where we can find a way around forking over more to them then I'm going to do it. As for where the conversation was going-i'm going to guess it's going to end up being a Supreme Court Decision one day in the future. We are a divided nation and as long as it stays that way -people seem to miss what's really going on around us. Best wishes to you all and hope to see you back for future blogs. God Bless
Joe Stutler
2:16 pm on Thursday, June 7, 2012
Ms. Shannon, your blog started out with a political candidate's tone. You discuss the reason for the article (Fourth Estate questions to you), you disparage your opponent (Mathis hasn't thus far answered the questions), and even tossed a bit of snark at the Gazette (stinging from their endorsement last fall).
Once folks started asking you to elaborate on the issues - both the ones originally
submitted to you in the survey and the unsolicited one you chose instead to address - you evade answering, belittle the questioners, try to divert attention, claim your blog has nothing to do with your candidacy, and keep trying to shut down the conversation.
Many of us support a less-intrusive role for our government, whether on the issue of prohibition, warrant-less surveilance, or who may enjoy the benefits of marriage. Change from the status quo, however, may have implications and ramifications which need to be considered as we work to implement change. For example, the question of how we should manage a transition back to the legalization of marijuana would look at potential age restrictions and taxation on sales. The questions put to you regarding your stance against state-sanctioned marriage have gone unanswered, as have the originally put to you in the survey regarding samegender marriage. Would you please enlighten your potential constituents on you positions? Thanks.
Jeff Klinzman
2:52 pm on Thursday, June 7, 2012
Randi, you earlier wrote you "don't look to the government" to "give" you anything. However, you do so in a context where you want to become an elected official, a part of "government." I am proud to be a product of American public education, including the University of Iowa: "government" didn't "give" me an education, I worked for it. I pay taxes because I expect "government" to provide a transportation infrastructure, public safety, and yes, social welfare programs to ameliorate the worst effects of market capitalism. Be honest, it is GOP fiscal policy which is partly responsible for the federal debt.
As for "venom," which side of the same-sex marriage issue calls gays and lesbians "abominations?" Wasn't it the TEA faction which spread falsehoods about Obama's birth, and alleged he was educated in a madrassa? Hasn't it been GOP elected officials who have cultivated anti-Islamic prejudice by stoking fear of shariah law or the proposed Park 51 project to build an Islamic center in New York City? Randi, it is elements of your party which are dividing Americans against each other. How will you stop that?
B.A. Morelli
1:54 pm on Thursday, June 7, 2012
Thanks everyone for being involved in this discussion, and thanks Randi for writing this post. Clearly, this blog has sparked many different viewpoints, which is what a good blog should do. But, as the conversation continues, please keep it civil and refrain from personal attacks.
Joe Stutler
2:18 pm on Thursday, June 7, 2012
Seems to be civil so far, from all parties. Did I miss something?
B.A. Morelli
3:32 pm on Friday, June 8, 2012
@Joe. It has been pretty civil, which is really refreshing to see especially given opposing views on some of the topics being discussed. Since new people are joining the conversation, I thought it would be a good reminder.
Aaron Garrett
12:41 pm on Friday, June 8, 2012
At least the candidate is out here interacting with the public. Show me another candidate who is.
Joe Stutler
3:20 pm on Friday, June 8, 2012
Pretty much any of 'em....at least the ones who want to get elected. I attend various gatherings, coffees, forums, etc, where candidates for everything from city council and county supervisor to the statehouse and Terrace Hill to Congress and the White House meet and greet and interact with the public. I haven't yet had the opportunity to meet Ms. Shannon, but I'm looking forward to it.
Aaron Garrett
1:47 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
Ive "interacted" with them too Joe, if you want to call it that. Above and beyond being talked AT for 10 minutes at a time with minimal back and forth conversation I havent gotten much "interaction". Especially on hot button issues. Those conversations go nowhere fast. Online interaction like this is pretty much ZERO. They have the tool-- but they dont want to use it. Agree with Randi or not, it isnt even the point. At least she is making the effort and having an actual conversation.
Joe Stutler
7:03 am on Sunday, June 10, 2012
Aaron, how much effort have you put into interacting with them? I have had plenty of one-on-one time with presidential candidates as well as candidates for city council and everything in between, and not just with candidates of my political affiliation. Of course, I make the effort to attend their public events, I participate in "hill day" events with various advocacy groups, I show up to listening posts and coffees and such that various politicians host, I attend various debates.
I'm "friends" with many of 'em on Facebook, subscribe to their email newsletters, and show up for on-line forums.
Do you only interact with them in what they might perceive of as negative contact such as complaining or challenging them regarding their stance on a specific issue? Do you ever contact them to thank them for positions with which you agree? Do you ask them to explain why they have a given viewpoint, and do you respectfully listen to their answers? Do you provide credible, verifiable supporting materials when you seek to educate them on a given issue?
I find that most politicians and candidates for elected office are much like me, people with a desire to make the world a better place. They have much the same hopes and fears, dreams and desires. I may not agree with them on any given position, but I do respect them for getting out there and trying to make a difference.
Aaron Garrett
12:39 pm on Monday, June 11, 2012
"Do you only interact with them in what they might perceive of as negative contact such as complaining or challenging them regarding their stance on a specific issue? Do you ever contact them to thank them for positions with which you agree? Do you ask them to explain why they have a given viewpoint, and do you respectfully listen to their answers? Do you provide credible, verifiable supporting materials when you seek to educate them on a given issue? " -- Respectfully, Joe, I dont have time to be condescended to.
I am active in the Johnson County GOP. I have "interacted" with candidates there. I was CoChair of Ron Paul Johnson County leading up to the Iowa Straw Poll. I worked with our local GOP through the delegate slate process-- very cordially-- as a matter of fact most of the other counties look at the work and cordiality done in our county as an example of how the process SHOULD have went in other counties who had difficulty. I do have a house, a wife, a yard, a dog, and a career which requires ongoing education. Im not retired. I dont have time to rub elbows at events that only happen every few years when someone wants to get re-elected. I do have time to help grassroots activists.
Aaron Garrett
12:43 pm on Monday, June 11, 2012
(cont.) What I dont have time for is for Joe Stutler to query me as to my maturity level and communication skills.
The statement stands. Where are their blogs? It is a great platform, facebook, and the internet. How many of them use it to speak with their constituents, WHILE in office-- not while trying to get elected? Here is one, and THIS is what that looks like in REALITY. https://www.facebook.com/repjustinamash Congressman Amash, agree with him or not, updates his facebook daily and explains EVERY vote he has cast and why he voted the way he did. I dont have time to be pandered to during election years. Maybe once I retire I wont have anything better to do.
Joe Stutler
5:36 pm on Monday, June 11, 2012
Aaron, please accept my apology that you saw my post as condescending. It certainly wasn't intentional. I don't know you, so I thought I'd ask a few questions to better understand your perspective.I've known many folks of various party affiliation (and no party affiliation) who like to complain about politicians, yet make no effort to actually talk with legislators and candidates.
Again, I am sorry you read my questions as something other than intended.
Randi Shannon
11:37 pm on Friday, June 8, 2012
I personally believe people should be treated fairly. I personally see "marriage" as a religious ceremony, although many who have researched this take it way back, will disagree. So that is an argument that probably will never end. I’m not going to go all the way back to Nero or Roman Times, I’m here in America and Iowa specifically. I personally believe that if you are giving a benefit or tax relief to one it should be across the board but this is a government victory, you see-pitting people against each other and the people lose out. I believe we should have never started agreeing or complying with the government for a license for this and a license for that. This is government overreach which makes them like a god with control over the people their actions their families their privacy etc. Marriages were done within families or with pastors. I prefer this. If the government doesn't have the ability to track your lineage or keep records on you then I say all the better. As for SS etc., who's going to be getting it anyway-they've already spent it and now you must hope to live to be 80-as they want to collect it from you your whole life and hope you drop dead before you can collect it. As far as being recognized by having a 'license' or if you are same sex and married or man/woman married-it's a government overreach-why beg them for permission?
Randi Shannon
11:37 pm on Friday, June 8, 2012
They just see you as a slave who's come a begging and when/if you get a divorce you must beg them again and pay more fee's and God help you if you had children. They become property of the state. Does this sound like a great thing you'd like to recommend anyone be a part to? So the purpose of my blog post is to educate as many as I can to this and to hope that some will find answers. If I’m elected I will vote to shrink the government any way I can. If it's unconstitutional I will not be in favor of it-that goes for any legislation-so please don't read into that. Now down to the nitty gritty...what you have asked for. I would vote to uphold the sanctity of marriage, that is the word we use here in our nation for 1 man and 1 woman, marriage is the word that is used. That has been the definition. Because someone is of a different mind, does not mean they can ethically change the definition of words to suit themselves. Civil union is another way of saying you are 'partners' and receive the same tax benefits or SS income or whatever are in those 1600 benefits.
I am very open and work very hard to clearly communicate situations and positions on them. I appreciate feedback that I can learn from. Any remaining disagreements will be resolved at the polls. Three Iowa Supreme Court justices learned that people do have a say about how things ultimately get decided. I strongly support the people’s right and responsibility to have their say. Joe, I look forward...
Randi Shannon
11:39 pm on Friday, June 8, 2012
to meeting too, as well as anyone else that wishes to meet. Again I appreciate all the posts and I'll see you on the next blog!
Robert E
12:08 am on Saturday, June 9, 2012
Through most of human history and in most cultures the most widely accepted tradition of marriage has been polygamy -- one man and multiple women. We're not just talking about exotic island cultures or lost tribes in the African jungle. Polygamy is the family form most often mentioned in the first five books of the Old Testament. For the first 16 centuries of its existence, the Catholic Church held that marriage was inherently tainted by what Pope Gregory the Great deemed the degrading "carnal pleasure" that took place under its auspices. The church decided that a man and woman were married if they had exchanged "words of consent," even if they had done so out by the haystack, without any witnesses or involvement by a priest. Not until 1215 did the Catholic Church make marriage a sacrament, and not until 1563 did it begin to enforce rules mandating that certain ceremonies had to be performed to make a marriage legitimate. Sixteenth-century Protestant reformers had a much more positive marriage a sacrament, and not until 1563 did it begin to enforce rules mandating that certain ceremonies had to be performed to make a marriage attitude toward the blessedness of marriage than Catholics.
Robert E
12:09 am on Saturday, June 9, 2012
But Protestant clerics were stricter than Catholics in enforcing the tradition that marriage should be governed by considerations of patriarchal authority and property rather than free choice based on love. In many Protestant regions, authorities forbade impoverished individuals from marrying at all. And Protestant officials often stepped in to dissolve marriages that had been made without parental consent, even if both parties were adult and children had already been born to their union. Most of the "traditions" we associate with marriage are in fact comparatively new. It was only two centuries ago that people began to marry for love rather than for mercenary or practical considerations.
Robert E
12:09 am on Saturday, June 9, 2012
Only 130 years ago did men start to lose their legal right to physically beat or imprison their wives. And only in the past 40 years have we established the principle that within a marriage wives and husbands have equal rights in decision-making. Not until 1979 did the last American state finally repeal its "Head and Master" law, which had given husbands the final say over many aspects of family life. Not until 1993 did marital rape become a crime in every state, overturning the millennia-old tradition that a wife was obligated to have sex with her husband whenever he demanded it. Trying to revert to antiquated and unfair traditions is not the answer. We need to figure out how to build on the opportunities and minimize the risks associated with the ongoing modernization of marriage. It helps no one to wage futile culture wars to return to a tradition that wasn't half as clear-cut or advantageous as many people believe.
Jeff Klinzman
6:32 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
Randi, I'm uncomfortable with the mentality I infer from you here. You dismiss marriage licenses as a revenue scam, imply those of us who are legally married are dupes or slaves, all in order to conform to the unreasoned prejudice of Republicans who refuse to accept same-sex marriage. I'm also concerned that you are not a good listener, and value your own ideas so much you will not consider reasoned rebuttals: those are qualities which I don't like to see in an elected official who will have to represent the interests of people who didn't vote for her while working with Democrat lawmakers whose ideas differ from your own.
Randi Shannon
8:09 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
Jeff- you like Obama-I don't. Tell us all what you like about him? Please be specific in your answer. Thanks
Jeff Klinzman
8:48 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
?!?!
Wow, Randi, I was appalled when Obama renewed the Patriot Act, dislike his close association with the financial industry, he has been far more aggressive militarily than Bill Clinton, especially in his use of drones as instruments of assassination, and I disagreed with his dithering on abolishing "don't ask-don't tell" and defense of same-sex marriage, so "like" is hardly the word I'd use to describe my attitude towards the man.
I'm not the one running for office, you are, so why the interrogator's tone? You presented what I consider a sophistic argument which obscured your opposition to same-sex marriage, and your commentary here has continued to dodge the question. If you oppose same-sex marriage, and will work to outlaw it, then say so. Barack Obama has nothing to do with this debate which, coincidentally, you started...
Randi Shannon
7:40 am on Sunday, June 10, 2012
The thing about writing is often times there is no tone to it, but readers tend to take it the way they are feeling or thinking at the moment. You should call direct and have a conversation with me, you'll find i'm about as easy to talk to as it gets. I found your facebook page and saw something there in your likes about Obama and it would seem to go hand in hand with your writings here. Also it seems from your writing you have a lot of anger of which I don't have and you would find that out when we speak. Writing like this is incredibly impersonal and easy for people that are just the nice people next door to all of a sudden attack and speak in ways they wouldn't normally, because they believe (mostly) that no one will ever be able to put a face to the name. I have made my points clear. I've hardly dodged a thing. Go to the start and read the post. Either way, whatever way you decide to take it, I have made my statements and i've been clear. You just don't like my answer. Government granted marriage licenses are an overreach and are there for the revenue. As for your post about being appalled on the renewal of the Patriot Act, the association with the financial industry, his aggressive military movements, the drones for assisination etc. we ARE in agreement. So maybe you liked his page for another reason, I have had to do that to make comments on peoples pages, so I would understand that.
Folks God Bless You all! I wish you all the best and I thank you for a
Jeff Klinzman
9:51 am on Sunday, June 10, 2012
I see I'll have to check my security settings, since I thought my FB page was only available to "friends," Randi! For what it's worth, the recession would have been much worse if Chrysler and GM had been liquidated through bankruptcy.
Randi, your contention about the origin of marriage licenses is irrelevant to a public policy discussion. I would be surprised if, should you be elected and should the GOP take control of the Senate, the party would make it a priority to end Iowa's issuance of marriage licenses.
You have fallen in line with the evangelical wing of the Iowa GOP by demanding "let the people vote," which is code for opposing same-sex marraige. You have made clear your assertion that marriage is a "religious institution," even though there are civil legal and tax implications for being married, and even though many people, including me and my wife of 31 years, never set foot in a church. I guess, in your mind, I'm not "married," since my wife and I were married by a judge in the Johnson County courthouse.
Randi, a gay or lesbian couple being able to legally marry does no harm to anyone. Denying them that right harms them and the society, by declaring them second-class citizens. That's why I become frustrated with this continuing debate: the only arguments I have seen opposing same-sex marriage are either sectarian (like your "marriage is a religious institution"), based on homophobic prejudice, or sophistic (like your origin story).
Randi Shannon
7:41 am on Sunday, June 10, 2012
great dialogue here! Till the next post............
Randi Shannon
12:02 pm on Sunday, June 10, 2012
Jeff what is hilarious is your constant rude response. You believe because I a regular citizen am running you now have the right to kick another human being and you stand on your soapbox bloating like a goat-and yet you say all should be treated fairly and humanely-what hypocrisy on your part . I SAID all should be treated =. I never said a private ceremony OR a bought license made you not married. You OBVIOUSLY have NOT read my posts. I can promise you this-this girl isn't your typical politician and I'm NOT afraid to speak my mind. I have allowed you enough time wasting. We are WE THE PEOPLE, NOT we the states or we the federal government. They don't speak for me.
Jeff Klinzman
12:34 pm on Sunday, June 10, 2012
Actually, Randi, some horses "bloat" when you try to tighten the girth: they expand their chests so, once tightened, they relax and the girth fits more loosely. I'm not sure what goats do, but I'm pretty certain it's not "bloat."
You never answered the Gazette's questions about same-sex marriage and the Iowa Supreme Court's Varnum v. Brien decision. I repeat: Iowans may have a "right" to vote on amending the state's constitution, but I reject the proposition that they should vote whether or not to deny gays and lesbians the civil right to become married. Majorities have quite frequently been wrong, whether on allowing interfaith or interracial marriages, allowing women the right to vote, or ending de facto segregation.
I'm not "rude," Randi, just direct. I think you have been equivocating here by refusing to give any of us simple "yes" or "no" responses to the Gazette's questions. Do you support same-sex marriage? Do you support the Varnum v. Brien decision? Will you work to pass a constitutional amendment to strip gays and lesbians of the civil right of marraige? Do you support impeaching the remaining four justices who delivered the Varnum v. Brien decision?
You owe us straight answes, since you seek elected office.
Jeff Klinzman
1:35 pm on Sunday, June 10, 2012
BTW, Randi, here's a Republican fundraiser who may be able to help you out, should you speak up in favor of same-sex marriage:
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/06/10/opinion/sunday/the-gops-gay-trajectory.html?pagewanted=1&_r=1&nl=todaysheadlines&emc=edit_th_20120610
Aaron Garrett
12:49 pm on Monday, June 11, 2012
Waste of time Randi. You dont "owe" it to anyone here to feel obligated to reply to condescending posts because you seek public office. This person has way too much time on their hands and much less worthwhile content.
Joe Kierpaul
10:05 am on Monday, June 11, 2012
All, this is quite a lively debate. Let me add something here. Many people who are Christians object to gay marriage. I do, based on the Scripture. However, this does not give me a right to force on them my religious views. It does not give me the right to use state force. Likewise, the gay couple should have no right to force me to recognize their union. I should not have to do business with them either. They should not be forced to do business with me. In a free country, there are certain things we will have to put up with if we want to remain free, some of them are immoral and disgusting. I would advocate that if you go out and be involved in your community, that you can make the moral changes on the culture you wish to take place. The government should not interfere in this aspect either. If you do not like to hear someone preaching the gospel, go somewhere else. It is free speech. The same goes if you do not like someone advocating for positions you do not like. Too bad! In ancient Rome, particularly Corinth, there was rampant prostitution and homosexuality there. Rome never interfered with it. Yet, Christianity flourished there. Why? Because people were involved with the culture and engaged them. Today we have busybodies who are much involved with government force instead of engaging the culture.
Jeff Klinzman
10:19 am on Monday, June 11, 2012
Joe, like it or not, sexual orientation is a protected category under Iowa civil rights law. It is just as illegal for you to refuse to do business with a person because he or she is gay or lesbian as it is to refuse the business of a person who is black or Jewish. Why do you see exercising such discrimination as an essential element of being "free?"
Robert E
5:38 pm on Monday, June 11, 2012
It's time for people to stop using the bible as an excuse for bigotry. Bigotry and Hatred wrapped in Religion are still Bigotry and Hatred. Religion enables the bigoted and hateful to believe that their bigotry and hatred is virtue.
Joe Kierpaul
10:06 am on Monday, June 11, 2012
continued........Politicians will always be there to divide and conquer. This is what they do and how they "stay in office." When realize the government should be small and out of our lives, we will experience a true change in this country. If people want to make a change in a state and use state force, I guess I have to just sit back and take it since I do not engage my culture. What do you think?
Robert E
5:48 pm on Monday, June 11, 2012
The problem I have with the Christians is not the religion but the fact that they want everyone to be Christian. They for the most part don't seem to understand that not everybody is a Christian. I for once would like to have a discussion with them on a subject like this with out having to bring up the bible. They can't seem to figure out that saying God said so in the Bible does not convince me. You don't see other Religions coming here and saying to the Christians it has to be this way because Buda says so. Lord Shiva said it should be this way but they always have to tell you what Christ wants. The same chapter of the Bible that calls a man laying with a man an abomination also says eating shellfish in an abomination but you never see the Christians protesting in front of Red Lobster or partitioning the state house to pass a law banning calm chowder because it offends God. The thing I have found is many Christians have very little knowledge of their own bible they only know what their priest/minister tells them but few read the whole thing for themselves. I just get tired of being told I need to follow Jesus all the time.
J Quijana
7:01 pm on Saturday, June 30, 2012
Randi, you appear to be quite an adept politician! Soooo many words when the questions posed could easily have been answered in a few succinct sentences.
FTR, you cannot treat people equally & deny gay couples the right to marry. Nor do gay marriages pose any threat to heterosexual marriages. Those who support banning gay marriage are supporting blatant bigotry.
States Rights is such a disingenuous dodge...It's nothing more than an attempt to deny &/or limit personal liberty under the guise of protecting the 'rights' of voters to decide deeply personal issues that s/b outside their purview. Individuals can & should make such decisions without the unholy interference of pandering politicians & a judgmental, paternalistic populace.