Ask the Patch Pros: Your Back to School Questions Answered
Feeling trepidation about the coming school year? Worry no more.
Beginning school can be a stressful transition period for both kids and parents. Whether you have a little one who is going to school for the first time or a big kid who has it all taken care of (so they think), you may have some questions for how to best prepare for the year ahead.
And that's where our Patch Pros come in. Say hello to our distinguished panel who will be taking your questions below in the comments section. Feel free to ask multiple questions, as they will be checking back the next few days.
Our Pros:
Dave Schwartz: Iowa City dad. Iowa Patch Fatherhood Blogger
Mackenzie Sposeto and Scott Cunningham: Members of the Waukee Police Department and School Resource Officers for Waukee Schools. Here to take both your school and safety questions.
Casey Speake: Durham School Survices, a school bus transportation provider.
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Jessica Miller
9:09 am on Thursday, August 9, 2012
How will traffic patterns change once school begins and what should drivers look for?
Officer Mackenzie Sposeto
11:22 am on Thursday, August 9, 2012
Traffic generally picks up around all ten of our Waukee schools between the hours of 7:30 a.m.until 9:00 a.m., and then again from 2:45 p.m. until 3:50 p.m. We (the Waukee Police Department) really try to make ourselves visible and in the school's neighborhoods during these hours. I know congestion becomes a huge issue near several of our schools. If you are seeing individuals that are being unsafe (cutting through parking lots at high rates of speed, weaving in and out of traffic, running stops signs, etc., please write their plate number down and let us know. We also make our rounds at bus stops throughout the city keeping our eyes on your children as they are waiting. If your children reports any bullying, or inappropriate behaviors to you please again let us know. The best officers to call if the issues are related to school are the School Resource Officers. Contact the police department and they will put you in contact with one of us.
Officer Mackenzie Sposeto
Ashlee Kieler
9:39 am on Thursday, August 9, 2012
With so many reports of suspicious vehicles and possible abductions circulating this summer, what can parents with children who walk to school do to ensure their safety?
Officer Mackenzie Sposeto
11:33 am on Thursday, August 9, 2012
The best advice I can give as a mother of three and a police officer is to educate your children. At home this is a topic that we cover often. I spend a lot of time in the schools as well talking with kids about strangers and informing them that if someone would approach them they do not have to say anything, being polite goes out the window. Teach your children to run away and tell someone immediately. If you have kids that do walk home, buy a cheap cell phone. Most places like Wal-Mart will let you have the phone for free and just pay a $10.00 a month line fee. I also encourage kids to walk with other children, groups are less likely to be bothered. Make sure if there would be any kind of unusual incidient it be reported immediately. Too many times we have reports filed days after the incidents take place. There is no such thing as a stupid question when it comes to our children's safety.
Officer Mackenzie Sposeto
Stephen Schmidt
9:40 am on Thursday, August 9, 2012
A question for Dave. As a parent, how have you found its best to prepare yourself and your kids for the transition from open-ended summer to the more rigid scheduling of the school year?
Dave Schwartz
10:38 am on Thursday, August 9, 2012
We have (attempted to) put our kids into alarm-clock boot camp this week. We (my wife and I) are their alarm clocks. The later bedtimes are ending, and we are waking them up no later than 7:30, just to get their bodies ready. By the time our district opens school next Thursday, they will have had -- in theory -- 10 days to get used to the school morning schedule.
Stephen Schmidt
1:28 pm on Thursday, August 9, 2012
An admirable effort. I still have trouble programming my sleep schedule.
B.A. Morelli
9:44 am on Thursday, August 9, 2012
Some kids have a lot of anxiety surrounding the beginning of the school year. Any tips for dealing with that?
Jody Gifford
9:48 am on Thursday, August 9, 2012
Ho do you prepare a young child - kindergarten or first grade - to ride the bus to school? Is there someone on the bus that helps guide the little kids in their first few weeks riding? Thanks!
Dave Schwartz
10:42 am on Thursday, August 9, 2012
Jody, I wrote about this almost exactly a year ago. http://iowacity.patch.com/blog_posts/school-bus-anxiety. My belief is that the bulk of the anxiety belongs to the parent, not to the kid. The best thing my wife did on Day 1 was wait at the bus stop with our daughter. When one of the older girls from the neighborhood arrived -- one whom we trusted -- my wife asked whether she'd mind sitting with our daughter, and of course she said yes. It was such a relief.
Alison Gowans
12:46 pm on Thursday, August 9, 2012
Dave, have you talked with your kids about the missing Evansdale girls or the reports of white vans and abduction attempts from across the state? To anyone out there reading this: How do you address these issues - making sure children understand the seriousness of staying safe and what they should do if someone approaches them - without freaking them out or causing anxiety?
Dave Schwartz
1:19 pm on Thursday, August 9, 2012
Like Officer Sposeto recommends, we do talk to our kids about strangers. As far as the Evansdale girls, no, we have not brought up that specific event. Our girls face enough anxiety.
Casey Speake
12:49 pm on Thursday, August 9, 2012
Casey Speake, General Manger Durham School Services.
During the first few weeks of school, our drivers check kids on the bus to get to know names with faces. The school district does have a policy for Kindergarten kids that asks parents to meet the bus to recieve their children. If there are older students that get off the bus there as well, the older kids have been allowed to assist the kindergarten students. I do suggest that before school starts that parents walk the path from home to bus stop location with their kids so they know the route. Also on the first day, if you would be at the bus stop and see your student onto the bus and then go to the school and be there when the kindergartner gets off the bus, this reaffirms the student that they got to where they are supposed to be.
Stephen Schmidt
1:27 pm on Thursday, August 9, 2012
Hey Casey. As someone who works with Durham, is there any advice you can give for parents that will make serving them with buses easier for you and the districts you work with, and as a consequence, will improve your service?
Casey Speake
3:51 pm on Thursday, August 9, 2012
Stephen,
Go over bus safety with your kids before school starts. Have kids at the bus stop on time and then after school be at the bus stop on time to recieve kids and don't wait till the last minute to make bussing arrangement. The importance of going over bus safey will improve the riding evironment for all riders, and help with the bus being on time as there will be fewer delays having to stop and deal with rowdy riders. Bus safety can really be narrowed down to 5 simple rules which are: follow the instructions of the driver promptly, remain seated at all times, keep hands/feet and objects to self, respect the rights and property of others including bus property and no eating or drinking on the bus. Open communication between the school, bus service and parents will always help make things run smoothly.
Jessica Miller
10:27 am on Friday, August 10, 2012
How should the drivers' of other vehicles behave if they see a school bus with flashing amber or red lights?
Casey Speake
11:41 am on Friday, August 10, 2012
Casey Speake,
When drivers of other vehicles are approaching a school bus from the front, if the yellow lights are flashing be prepared to stop, when the red lights flash they must stop. When approaching a school bus from behind they must stop when either the yellow or red lights are flashing.
Casey Speake
11:49 am on Friday, August 10, 2012
Here are some other safety items to teach kids:
Stay at least 10 feet away from bus at all times and do not approach the bus until the door opens. If students need to cross the street, they should wait untill the driver signals them that is safe to cross. Never try to recieve dropped items that may roll under a bus. Never try to chase or run after a bus if you are late or race the bus after you are dropped off. While waiting for the bus, remember to respect the property and belongings of others, don't throw rocks, pull grass, or pick flowers in the area (they belong to somebody else). When exiting the bus, walk directly to the sidewalk and then away from the bus and if you have to cross the street, walk 10 steps out and then 10 steps in front of bus and wait for driver to signal you it is safe to cross the street. Then look both ways to make sure and WALK, don't run across the street.